Strength in numbers on survivors’ day

AUSTRALIA’S National Survivors Day was marked last week and sought to highlight the experiences of victims and survivors of sexual assault and institutional abuse, as well as those who support them.

Victorian survivors, family members and allies, including some from Ballarat, were invited to a morning tea at Government House in Melbourne with the aim of acknowledging their strength and advocacy.

Artist and LOUD Fence member Rebecca Russell attended the event and is a survivor of familial child sexual abuse.

“Being able to be in such an extraordinary place was a real treat,” she said.

“Whilst I’m not a monarchist, it’s a place of power and influence, and so to be invited into that place and to have representation was really important to me.

“Like many people like me, we haven’t had the opportunity for truth telling or to go through courts.

“The Royal Commission was institutional abuse, and while that’s been wonderful and has changed my life even though I wasn’t a part of it, there’s still a sense that so many of us, who experienced familial CSA, still don’t have a voice.

“I felt like I was there representing those of us who have that kind of history, and there’s no real pathway to take beyond speaking out every now and again.”

Ms Russell said she values events like the Government House reception that highlight the issue of sexual abuse, give people a voice, and help facilitate connections.

“Representation is really important, and if you don’t see and hear about these things, particularly CSA, it’s an incredibly isolating experience,” she said.

“Events like this are opportunities to feel that strength in numbers and that connection. I definitely felt that on the day.

“There was an overarching sensitivity, care, and genuine attempt at doing something. It would be great to see the day continue to be recognised, particularly by government and official bodies.”

If you or someone you know is dealing with issues resulting from sexual or physical abuse, help is available from CASA on 1800 806 292 or casacv.org.au, Lifeline on 13 11 14 or lifeline.org.au, and 1800 Respect on 1800 737 732.