How can we best support elderly parents?

October 3, 2025 BY
Supporting Elderly Parents

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IF YOU find yourself wondering, “How can I help my elderly parents?” — you are not alone.

Throughout communities, many adult children are grappling with the delicate balance of supporting ageing parents who wish to remain independent, yet may need increasing assistance as time goes on.

The desire for autonomy is strong, and understandably so. Many older Australians are reluctant to admit they need help, even as mobility, health, or social connections become more challenging.

As loved ones, the goal is to ensure their safety, comfort, and continued engagement with life. But where do you start?

Assessing the need: Personal, social, and financial support

Begin by considering what kind of help your parents might need. Is it personal care, social connection, or financial guidance?

Each area comes with its own set of resources and responsibilities.

Personal care includes:

Assistance with daily activities such as showering, dressing, and meal preparation can make a world of difference.

Medication management is crucial, ensuring the right dosage at the right time.

Services like Meals on Wheels, available through local councils, can help with nutrition.

Domestic help, including cleaning and gardening, can ease the burden of home maintenance.

Personal alarms and monitoring systems offer peace of mind for both seniors and their families.

Supporting elderly parents is a journey that requires compassion, patience, and practical planning.

 

 

Social connection:

Regular social visits or help getting to appointments and community events can combat loneliness.

An occupational therapist can assess the home for safety and recommend mobility aids if needed.

Encourage involvement in local groups, such as church communities or Senior Citizens Clubs like Probus, to foster friendships and activity.

Financial and legal matters:

Navigating aged care can be complex. Assistance with paperwork, negotiating services, and understanding entitlements is invaluable.

Legal matters — Wills, powers of attorney, and guardianship — should be addressed early.

An Aged Care Assessment can determine eligibility for government-subsidised care packages, respite, or permanent care.

The government’s My Aged Care website (myagedcare.gov.au) is a comprehensive resource for information and next steps.

Seeking professional guidance

Sometimes, the journey into aged care can feel overwhelming. Aged Care Consultants specialise in guiding families through the process, offering support and clarity during what can be an emotional time.

Supporting elderly parents is a journey that requires compassion, patience, and practical planning. By breaking down their needs and seeking the right support, Homestyle Aged Care can help them maintain dignity, independence, and quality of life.

If you or your loved one are exploring aged care options in Melbourne or Geelong, the admissions team is available to discuss your unique situation and help you navigate the many choices available.

To book a tour or seek advice, call 1300 104 663 or visit homestyleagedcare.com.au

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