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When a devastating event takes place in Lori\u2019s life, she realises that, before being able to help her patients, she must first learn how to help herself.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe You Should Talk to Someone is the story of an incredible relationship \u2013 between Lori, a therapist at a critical life juncture, and her own therapist, Wendell, a veteran therapist with an unconventional style.<\/p>\n<p>Through their sessions, Wendell teaches Lori how to become a better person and a better therapist, as she goes about the business of helping her own patients \u2013 the couple who are struggling after having a baby, the narcissist TV producer, the older woman who feels she has nothing to live for, the self-destructive alcoholic young woman, the terminally ill 35-year old newlywed. Taking place over one year, beginning with the devastating event that lands her in Wendell\u2019s office, this is a rare and candid insight into a profession conventionally bound with rules and secrecy, told with charm and compassion, vulnerability and humour.<\/p>\n<p><strong> RRP &#8211; $35.00<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>As a therapist, Lori knows a lot about pain, about the ways in which pain is tied to loss, and how change and loss travel together. 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